News from muzhi

  1. There is a Europe wide timetable change on the 10th December - some operators have not yet confirmed their timetables or opened sales (for reservations or tickets) beyond that. Though some have.

  2. Thank you so much, that’s really helpful!

  3. My cat started having seizures too. The vet put her on phenobarbitone and she hasn’t had one since. I hope you find a solution for Igor.

  4. I think you need to take more ownership of the situation. You knowingly took drugs knowing that a psychotic episode could result. He has the right to respond to this however he chooses. If you are going to contact him, it should be to apologise without trying to justify your actions.

  5. I’m sorry about your friend. Your boyfriend isn’t a mind reader, and it sounds like he’s doing his best for you. Your friend suggesting that other guys could take his place - that’s incredibly immature.

  6. Nice. Don’t let that shit fly!

  7. Yeah, even if you could get over this it shows that he’s unwilling to listen to you or work through problems with you. I had a boyfriend like that and ended up feeling incredibly lonely.

  8. I really don't know what answer you're looking for here. I'm absolutely sure you're the same person who's been posing this question for a few days or more on reddit and nothing anyone says has made you feel better. I think you really could use a bit of therapy because you're clearly unhappy despite all this talk of having a great life and hobbies and so on.

  9. Did you get a receipt?

  10. This has all been a rollercoaster and I do think that I’ve gotten beaten down over time if that makes sense? You know like convinced that I am bad, pretty much. I used to think I was a great mom and now I feel I’ve done everything wrong this whole time and I constantly doubt myself. I know this sounds pitiful but I am very out of it at times.

  11. You sound like a great mom to me.

  12. I’m confused as to why he texts / calls me everyday to “see me” when we aren’t sleeping together. He constantly wants to talk. And now that I’ve mentioned breaking it off he begs me not to.

  13. Yeah, it’s confusing. I’m not saying he doesn’t get anything out of the relationship - he clearly does, and those things are what he fears losing. The point is, he’s not choosing you, and that’s so important.

  14. That’s how I feel. I just see so much nowadays about “work with someone, don’t just abandon things”. “Try to work it out”. Sometimes it’s hard to decipher if it’s worth abandoning or not.

  15. I think in this case, it is. I didn’t see a lot of joy or happiness coming through in your post. I think you deserve that. I wish someone had told me that when I was 32!

  16. Looking for validation from others is not the way, friend. They’ll fail you every time. Build your esteem by doing esteemable things.

  17. I have no ability to do esteemable things, my only skill lies in making others feel better while I want to die every moment. But at least they feel a bit better

  18. Have you tried volunteer work? That made a huge difference to me.

  19. I’m in one of those but I’m the extrovert. We solve it by regularly having our “own time”, which he generally spends alone and I’ll use to catch up with friends. I’m in my 40s though and would have found this a lot harder on my 20s, when I was convinced that couples have to do everything together.

  20. Reminds me of Anna Paquin!

  21. Can she move someone in to pay room and board and keep the house that way?

  22. No, I don't think so. The fact is that the house is becoming very worn down and needs a lot of work, it is discouraging for anyone who might want to move in for the price she needs. It is around 1,000 a month after all is said and done between my half of the house payment and all utilities

  23. That’s a shame. She must know she’s fighting a losing battle trying to keep you there at 27. I know you feel guilty but you need to go through with it, for both of you.

  24. If you’re really friends, maybe you should stay out of his relationship? This whole post sounds like you’re gloating. It’s pretty gross.

  25. What’s the background to this? I assume it’s not out of nowhere.

  26. Please stop posting this.

  27. People putting up with behaviour from a partner that clearly indicates they are not valued, and saying, “but we’re really happy otherwise” or “I really don’t want to break up over this”. It makes me really sad.

  28. Ah, that profile’s been deleted. What did I miss? This whole post seems fishy.

  29. I’m 42 but was very much like you at your age. My only advice would be that people change a LOT between the ages of 20-30, and you will too. So while I think you will have no trouble finding someone older to settle down with you, I’d hold back on doing any long term committing for a while yet. You have a lot of time.

  30. This sounds bizarre. At what point did you get engaged? Did you think it was over when he ghosted you for a month?

  31. His excuse for not calling me while in the county was he didn't have anyone's number.

  32. I would say you’re well rid of him. Move forward and forget him. His behaviour may seem odd now but I’m sure you’ll understand it given time.

  33. I also kinda feel like I should leave. But what is holding me back is there is so many good things that I want in a partner. I feel like this is it, the best I can get. I feel like there is a lot of good to him. Especially now that I have two children, and my son view him as his dad. I don’t want to mess it up for the kids. I don’t think I could ever get a partner willing to do all that he does for me and us. Now that I say it I think I sound pretty messed up, I have also started questioning myself a lot maybe it is my fault, maybe I am too emotional, maybe I should just talk to him and be cool because he wouldn’t reject me and then everything would be okay, maybe it is both of us and I would repeat the same thing with anybody, maybe it is just my narrative / perspective that is wrong etc. I feel like I am slowly going crazy. But leaving wouldn’t be hard in that way, only emotionally.

  34. I have been where you are. I promise you can do better than this.

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