Today is my birthday but no one wished me.

  1. You deserve an award mate just for being so kind and thoughtful. We need more people like you in this world. I wish I could give you award. But here, please accept a poor man's gold 🏆 🏅

  2. Happy Birthday Gorgeous! Hope you know how amazing this time in your life is! Where you get to discover, and explore what you love, what you are passionate about, and learn about the world with new capacity of understanding!

  3. Wow this was beyond amazing 😭 Saving this comment for my future daughter. I’m Latina as well and I wish someone would’ve said this to me when I was 15. Thank you for spreading so much kindness 🌺❣️

  4. How marvelous you are, and how very lucky your friends and family are to have you in their lives. This was so kind and uplifting to read, your heart is truly beautiful.

  5. Happy 15th birthday.. presents are over rated anyway.. make a point when your older to make it your day/week. Go away and experience something fun.

  6. Defo do this, save some pocket change if you can each week and go treat yourself. Make it work for you. And don’t forget too throw some guilt shade in a few weeks. Many happy returns pal make this your worst birthday and all from there on out will be magic

  7. THIS ...OP is NOT a worthless loser! Don't let anyone take your awesomeness and try to hurt you! It does get better....Reditt celebrates you...take that to heart!

  8. I am sorry everyone forgot your birthday that can really suck ... I hope this doesn't ruin your entire day ..Go do something you love and have a happy birthday 🎉.

  9. Not to mention it's easy to claim someone is better behaved if you don't live with them 100% of the time to see their faults. The old grass is always greener thing.

  10. Happy 15th birthday!! Also, you are a teenager. There is rebellion etc. I am sure you are a wonderful, typical 15 year old. My mom didn't like me when I (f and now 38) was your age. She told me she wished she hadn't adopted me etc. You will find your family through other ways as you grow. Family isn't always by blood or by legal guardianship. It is who you love and who loves you back. You can make your own family. I am happy you were born and your life will get better. Love yourself and do things that make you happy. Do your best at school because it will help you get out of that house and help you get that future self on the best track. Hugs to you ❤️

  11. Happy Birthday dear! Hope you have a wonderful year with lots of love and joy! Make new friends and meet people. Try doing something different. Hope you're feeling better .

  12. Oh my dear sweet child... Yesterday was my daughter's birthday. I'm going to eat a leftover piece of her cake IN YOUR HONOR! Oh, and I hate your mom a little bit.

  13. Happy birthday OP. You’re not worthless. You do matter, so don’t let other people like your family get you down.

  14. I’m so sorry you didn’t enjoy your day. I’m glad you made this Reddit post so you can see there are nice people in the world !! Hopefully next years one will be better xxxxx

  15. Happiest of Birthday’s to you, 15 years is no easy feat. Congratulations to making it this far, you should be proud of yourself. ❤️

  16. 15 was my last celebrated birthday, it's not uncommon and it's totally fine. Not everyone has well to do families to celebrate birthdays and gifts. It doesn't make you anymore or less of a person! Just some people get birthdays and parties and some don't. 😋

  17. I stopped getting anything more than a Happy Birthday when I was about 7, including a cake. I remember a friend’s mom baked me a simple cake but it meant the world to me. I'm now in my mid-forties and no longer celebrate my own birthdays. Other than my husband and mother nobody knows when my bday is and I'm fine with that.

  18. Hey op! You should know that no matter what you mom or anyone else says, you matter! You are worth it! You deserve love and appreciation! Just because you family does not appreciate you does not mean, that you are bad person! You seem like a good human being with low self esteem too me! (And who could blame you, when people around you aren't nice). Just keep doing you best and work on yourself for your sake, not anyone else's. If a situation is bad for your mental health it is time to either try to mend/repair it, or if not cut out the toxic parts of your life! You can always rebuild afterward, with good people you trust and that can appreciate you for you! I know it is not really possible for you to cut ties yet, if that is something you need to do, but you can start preparing by saving money, and acquiring useful skills (like schooling, independence skills and street smarts). No matter what you take away from this, I just want to remind you that you matter! And with that said...

  19. Happy Birthday! I was in a similar situation with my mom where everyone else was better and why couldn't I be like them. It turned out she had an anxiety disorder as well as probably some other things (which I inherited) - so here's hoping there's a legit reason your mom is the way she is. Things will get better as you get older and meet new people. These years are chaotic now but hang in there because your 20s are gonna rock!

  20. Happy birthday - I'm sorry that it started off rough. You are right, you're not perfect, but guess what, neither are your "golden cousins". When you are all older, I hope the cousins are there to comfort her, when she needs, since she prefers them over you. I can't send you a gift, but I do have a reddit award, which is almost as good LOL - I hope your day gets better OP!

  21. Happy birthday OP. I’m sorry to hear about your situation but just remember that you’ve got a long life ahead of you and to make the most of every moment you have being a teen!

  22. Happy Birthday!!!!! I'm 57 years old and I have never had a birthday party ever.. We can be twinsies😁😁

  23. Your family is fucking toxic. Grow up and leave, you'll be better on your own. Welcome to the dark, bro/sis/whatever.

  24. Happy Birthday from Australia 🇦🇺 Sending you hugs and you are enough and do matter. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗✌️✌️✌️✌️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  25. Happy 15th! We are birthday twins and mine was shit too. Some years are better than others so I hope your 16th is happier. I think once you are able to have your own life and make your own friends and family that you’ll only look back on this one as a learning point about what kind of people you want in your life. I’m sorry your mom sucks and your cousins aren’t ANY better than you.

  26. Happy Birthday friend. I am just like you. No one ever reminds my birthday and I'm not popular at home and work. my parents also think iam not smart like other kids. i feel looser but i don't care.

  27. Hi random stranger, happy 15th birthday! No matter what everyone else thinks, you're unique and deserve respect for your uniqueness, so here's a cake for ya🎂

  28. Happy birthday!!!! As a mom, I can’t imagine ever telling my daughter that I prefer my nieces over her. I’m so sorry that your family feels that way!! I hope you get a circle of friends that genuinely care about you and can make you feel like the good person you are (or hopefully strive to be). Best of luck in the future!!!

  29. Hey, she just doesn’t deserve you! Please, don’t feel sad and don’t you ever be shy telling your friends that your bday is coming! I’m sure they’d be happy to spend it with you. You also don’t have to be a perfect child for mom to love you. Not sure what is her issue, but I’m sure she will regret it soon enough when you will be out of her life taking care of your own family. And those cousins can give her all the love and care when she is old (I’m sure they won’t even tho they are “so good”).

  30. Happy birthday, I love you, genuinely. I know what it’s like to feel alone. It sucks. I’m sorry you have to feel this especially at such a young age. It will get better I promise you with my whole heart. Proud of you ❤️

  31. Your cousins are not better than you and you are not a worthless loser. I’m sorry this all happened to you. Chin up king, you’re 15 now and you have so many good times ahead of you. You’ll make so many great friends and memories that you won’t even tread over this. I’d love take you out for a beer but for now, happy birthday buddy.

  32. hey man, today was my 20th birthday! i hope you were able to make the best out of your special day. sometimes, all you can really do is make the best out of a shitty situation. much love to you, and happy birthday!

  33. Happy 15th Birthday!!!! Unfortunately blood does not always equal love. You are so worthy of real love and I promise you that you will find it in other people in this life. I know that doesn't make it hurt less right now, but you will be okay. Fuck her for treating you like that. You don't deserve it. ❤️

  34. Happy birthday OP!!!! You deserve to have a great day!! And don’t ever forget what an important and amazing person you are!

  35. Happy birthday fellow Aquarian! I'm so sorry there is so much sadness on your birthday. Remember, you write your own story, and be and do you. Hugs to you

  36. I feel your pain, my freshman year of college, no one wished me a happy birthday either. It was very depressing. But happy belated birthday to you. Im sorry yours wasn't the greatest.

  37. If you need a new parental figure I’m here for you. Fuck anyone who openly says they have a favourite kid, especially if that kid isn’t even yours. You’re literally 15, you’re not supposed to be obedient. You’re supposed to be having fun doing teen stuff! I hope you had a good birthday, despite everything happening. You deserve something good.

  38. Shit man. I’m sorry your mom said those things to you. I’d have a hard time acting right for someone who treated me like that. I’m wishing you a happy birthday from internet space. Cheers to you.

  39. Happy birthday! No one deserves a shitty day but I do want you to know you are special and loved and there will not be another you on this earth. (Corny but true)

  40. Happy Birthday! It’s normal for parents to forget things especially birthdays. I always give my parents a hints that few days before so they remember. 🎂🎂🎂

  41. Sorry man, that sucks. One thing that’s cool tho is that we share the same exact birthday, year and day, hopefully it makes you feel a little better

  42. Happy birthday!! You should sit down and watch 16 candles :) And it's not your fault for any of this. I hope things get better for you.

  43. Happy birthday!! Don’t stress over it. Just know your worth and own it. Don’t let anyone else make you feel unappreciated. Your whole life is ahead of you and things will only get better God willing :)

  44. HAPPY 15th BIRTHDAY!!!! Sorry, about your Mom forgetting, and putting you down. Don’t let the negativity get to you, but you are completely right for feeling the way you do. Parents are just people dealing with their own issues. Know that when you’re younger they seem so idolistic. Just try to keep your head up, and don’t put yourself down. You have many more birthdays to come!

  45. Happy birthday, Op. I'm sorry no one was there to give you birthday hugs and wishes but I'm sending them through the internet for you! I hope you have a better one next year and that you're surrounded by people who love you and that you love as well. :)

  46. Today is my birthday too! It gets better. I spent my 17th birthday crying. Many years later, I'm sitting across from my husband, drinking a 10% abv beer. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Cheers, friend!

  47. Happy birthday! Here's some reddit karma for your bday! Now everytime you open reddit and check your profile, you'll see and remember your gift from everyone around the world!

  48. Happy birthday man! You are amazing! The people around you might not realize how amazing you are, but that't their fault and not yours. And you definitely are not a loser. I am sure you will grow up to become successful in life and teach them all a lesson by always celebrating your birthday in grand style!

  49. Happy Belated Birthday, sorry to hear this happen to me growing up. Don't feel like your cousins are better out right, a lot of care, guidance and support makes a big difference. You just need to find that I found it in older friends and many mistakes but believe in yourself. I stopped caring what my mom thought after 20.

  50. Sorry your mom didn’t remember your birthday. A few years ago, I totally embraced my birthday and told everyone of my friends and coworkers I ran into that day that it was my bday. One birthday, the first thing I said when I walked into the office was “It’s my birthday!” No one remembers these things and it’s better than hoping people would remember and being sad that people didn’t. Some people enjoy saying happy birthday! It’s your day—celebrate it! As for your mom, leading up to your bday, you should just remind her! “Hey, mom, my birthday is in a week!!!!” “Hey, mom, my birthday is tomorrow!!!!!” Good luck! :)

  51. thats bad, i'm sorry for what you've been through. you don't deserve to be treated like that smh how could she did that to you i dont understand-

  52. Happy Birthday bro. Listen, I can sympathize with your experience with your mom. I went through a lot of the same things you outlined. And the birthday thing, especially rings true. One year my mom told me I wasn't getting any presents because she was going on vacation to Hawaii. And I got dick all. And I think I was around your age. It was fucked up then, and its fucked up now.

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